Black Women Miss Out on Life

Yes I said it. Why you ask?  It all relates to hair. Women have been obsessing about their tresses and it has caused them to miss out on life. In the past I have asked people to join me in my endeavors and have heard the following excuse as to why they can’t enjoy fun stuff and life: Giiiiiirl, I can’t do _________ because it will mess up my hair. Whaaaaat??? Ummmm ok * blank stare*

First of all, it’s a weave or you are au’ naturale. Second of all, so you mean to tell me that your hair prevents you from having fun. Third, again why is this a valid excuse? LMAO

Ladies, stop allowing your hair to prevent you from living a full life. I have seen so many women miss out on fun because of their hair.  I mean really look at all the things you say you can’t do because of your tresses:

                                        1.     Swimming – I can’t get my hair wet.

    2.     Exercise – I can’t sweat out my hair.

                                              3.     Sex – Don’t mess up my hair.

   4.     Sleep – I just got my hair did.

   

                       5.     Outdoor Activities – If I am going to sweat I’m not going.

    6.     Parties/Events - My weave/hair not done.

                                              7.     Time – I have to do my hair.

LOL, reeeeally. Y’all are funny. I have heard a gamut of excuses as to why a female can’t do something and they all begin with hair. Queens let’s just let go of the excuses and jump out there and do something different. Enjoy life and all it has to offer by ridding yourselves of the deep-rooted hair obsessions. Its just hair. So what it may not be styled today. That just might be the day you meet your soul mate. Or that just might be the day that you find a new hobby. Orrrr even learn a new sex position in the bedroom, shower, or kitchen.

Quit wasting time being overly concerned with how your hair looks, it’s a given everyone will have bad hair days. Annnnnnnnd who cares? Live, Laugh, Love and enjoy many the opportunities that are being extended to you. Don’t miss out on great memories because you are afraid of what others will say or think. Tell them to kick rocks with no shoes on. Bye girl I’ve got things to do and people to meet! 

In the scheme of it, its your hair (or not) have fun and seek all new possibilities. Besides that is what the good ol’ bun and ponytail is for. Its been saving lives since that beginning of time. Throw on some makeup, pull out your big earrings, and put on your highest heels and strut hunny, because you are fierce no matter what’s going on with your tresses.  Just call and make an appointment with your stylist to S.imply K.eep Y.our H.air H.ealthy!